Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Where In The World Wednesday

It's Wednesday and that means it's time for my feature, Where In The World Wednesday!

If you participate, please take the button the fabulous Feris made to use in your post!

The idea of WITWW is to post a picture of you in someplace in the world...it doesn't have to be somewhere foreign or tropical. Just a picture of you somewhere that you consider traveling. It might even be somewhere in your own hometown!

If you decide to participate, make sure to post it and then post your link in the comments so I and everyone else can check yours out! This is a great way to bring the 20sb community even closer, so be sure to click the links of other participants to find great new blogs to read.

Florence, Italy

I was in Florence for literally about 24 hours. We took a weekend trip to Florence and Venice, but only spent one day in each city. Florence was amazing in the short time I was there. I was so excited to get to see the amazing and famous David statue. I just had to sneak a photo. Florence is famous for it's leather, and as you can see, I splurged on a beautiful purse. We also had a delicious dinner in a restaurant literally in an alleyway. I had the best Chianti wine I've ever had in my life. Later that night, we went to an outdoor music festival.

So, Where In The World Are You this Wednesday?!

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

How To Be A Better Blogger

Over the past few weeks, a few different bloggers have asked me questions like "how do you get so many followers?" "how do you get so many comments?" and "how do you maintain your blog?" so I thought it would be interesting to discuss and share some of my blogging tips and hear what you guys think. While I'm by no means a blogging expert and my blog definitely isn't one of the most popular out there, I feel like over the past year and a half of blogging I've gained some experience that I'd like to share.

Layout:


-Keep your layout very simple. Pick a simple color scheme and definitely create a pretty header. Rachel did this header for me, but for my other blog I created my header using Scrapblog.

-White space is important. A cluttered blog layout makes me stop reading immediately. Do you have all kinds of clutter/applications on the side of your blog? It's distracting to the reader.

-Make it easy for your readers to contact you. Make sure your e-mail address is somewhere on the main page of your blog.

-Make sure your RSS feed button is very clear so readers can easily subscribe.

Content:

-Keep a list of topics that you might want to write about. I have a running word document full of topics that I randomly think of. If I'm ever pressed for a topic, I go to that list and choose one.

-Don't use your blog as a diary of your every day life. Sorry, that's a little boring. YES, please tell us about interesting things that happen to you and stories you want to share, but by all means, we don't need to know that you went to class, went to work, ate dinner with your family every day. It doesn't make for interesting content.

-Participate in weekly features. Most of you know that each week I host Where In The World Wednesday's (which is tomorrow, by the way!) If you scroll through the comments, you can go to each of the other blogs that participate and meet new bloggers. Another feature that I love to read and am planning on participating in this week is Lilu's TMI Thursday. Weekly features get your name and blog link out there while sharing interesting content with your readers.

-Use photos in your posts when possible. It makes your post more interesting to look at. Let's be honest, when you see a ton of text, do you want to read the entire thing? Using photos helps break up the text which is a good thing.

-Use bullets or lists when possible. People like to scan posts before they decide to read them and bullets and lists just aren't as intimidating as a ton of text.

Building a readership:

-Comment often. It's pretty simple. If you want someone to read your blog, it's common courtesy to comment on theirs. You don't need to comment on every single post, but I try to comment at least a few times a week on my favorite blogs.

-However, don't comment just for the sake of commenting. Only comment if you actually have something to say. Meaningful comments are much better than random meaningless comments.

-Reply to comments you receive.

-Make sure to visit each blog that leaves a comment on your blog and try to comment at least once. It's common courtesy. If you find that you don't like the blog, no need to add it to your reader or comment regularly, but at least show the person that you appreciated their comment by returning the visit.

-Join 20sb. It's a great place to find new blogs to read and to share your own blog. If you're already a member of 20sb, become more active on the discussion boards and add new friends often.

-Blog regularly. It doesn't have to be every single day, but get yourself on some kind of schedule so you actually do it. If you're blogging regularly, your readers know where to find you and will keep coming back for more.

-Most importantly, be friendly and be yourself!

Comments:

-Many people don't agree with my on this one, but PLEASE take the word verification out of your comments. I know you don't want spammers and neither do I, but when you read 100 blogs a day and try to comment on several of them, those 5 seconds spent trying to decipher the little blurred word and typing it into Blogger really does count.

-Replying to comments is an excellent way to make new blog friends and keep readers. However, DO NOT reply to a comment IN your own comments section. When I read and comment on a blog, I don't usually come back to see if the blogger replied to me. Like I said above, I read so many blogs a day (and usually in my Google Reader) so I don't go searching for replies to comments. If you are using Blogger, MAKE SURE that you click SHOW MY E-MAIL ADDRESS in the user profile section of your dashboard. This way, when a blogger receives your comment in their inbox, they can click reply and VOILA! They can e-mail you back. It's a beautiful thing.

-Inviting readers to comment by posing a question or asking them to share a story or experience will get you way more comments than just posting your own post. It seems kind of silly, but a question at the end of the post prompts a reader to think and makes them want to share their opinion too.

Now that I've given you my blogging tips...what do you think? Do you agree? Disagree? Feel free to share your blogging tips in the comments.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Study Abroad By The Numbers (And In Pictures)

7 months later and I still miss my time in Europe more than anything. I think about it all the time and sometimes I can't believe I was lucky enough that I got to have this amazing experience. Just this weekend when I was snowed in, I finally organized my 400 pictures and re-lived my amazing European adventure.

-6 weeks living in Rome-
-1.5 weeks in Greece-

-7 flights-
-1 overnight train ride-

-4 days in Paris-
-1 awful time getting food poisoning in Paris-

-1 day in Florence-

-2 days in Barcelona-
-1 day in Venice-

-1 volcano climbed in FLIP FLOPS-
-3 day-trips to the beach in Rome-

-50+ pizzas consumed-

-25 cups of amazing gelato (and 2 cute Italians who loved us Americans)-

-Countless nights of drinking-

-87 times I complained about how hot it was in Rome in June-

-2 tough but rewarding classes-

-7 times I fell asleep on buses on field trips-

-12 churches visited-

-1 mass with the Pope...unreal experience-

-$5,000 loan with more interest everyday (eeeks)-

-3 roommates and best friends-

-My study abroad experience....PRICELESS-

Did you study abroad? Do you miss it so much? What was your favorite part of studying abroad?

Sunday, February 7, 2010

iPod Boredom...Part 2

How ironic that I decided to write this post literally a year later from the time I first posted asking my lovely readers for their music suggestions.

Once again, I am bored with my iPod. I only have about 300 songs on it and I probably regularly listen to the same 7 songs over and over again (i.e. Taylor Swift on repeat). On a random note, I also have iPod ADD and can never get through an entire song.

So, dear readers, give me all your music suggestions. I tend to listen to a lot of John Mayer, Gavin Degraw, Taylor Swift, Jason Mraz, Ingrid Michaelson, Maroon 5 types of music, but I'm willing to branch out.

And since you all are going to be lovely and leave me your song suggestions (please!) I'll leave you with a list of my top 10 songs of the moment.

1. The Other Side of the Door by Taylor Swift
2. Beautiful Mess by Jason Mraz
3. Haven't Met You Yet by Michael Buble
4. Do You Remember by Jay Sean
5. Hey Soul Sister by Train
6. Friends, Lovers or Nothing by John Mayer
7. Need You Now by Lady Antebellum
8. Crush by Gavin Degraw
9. Wonderwall by Oasis
10. With Me by Sum 41

Can't wait to see what you all recommend!

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Snowed In

Okay, I'm done whining now. Thanks for listening to me complain, everyone! It's a good thing I didn't go anywhere last night because the weather is seriously intense and the roads are definitely not safe.

Now that I'm officially snowed in, I might as well make the best of it, because from taking a look outside my window, it doesn't look like I'm going ANYWHERE for at least 24 more hours. I'd show you a picture, but I've decided I'm staying in bed as long as possible today.

So, in honor of being snowed in here are some things I'll be doing this weekend:

-Marathoning Full House. I have the full DVD set and I'm about halfway through, so I'm going to plow through as many episodes as I can.

-Work on an article for a national publication about online portfolios. I need to do some research on online portfolios and possibly look into making one! Do you have an online portfolio?

-Drink hot chocolate with marshmallows. Of course.

-Stay in my pajamas for a straight 24 hours and cuddle up in my snuggie.

-Bubble bath?

-Finish reading Committed by Elizabeth Gilbert and start Artichoke's Heart by Suzanne Supplee.

-Homework? Maybe? Nah.

-Reply to blog comments and add new blogs to my reader :)

-Work on the book review blog (Need the link? Let me know)

-Play in the snow!!! I haven't played in the snow in years and I'm considering going outside and making a snow angel or two.

What are you doing on this snow day? Or in the case of you non-Northerners, your non-snow day?

Friday, February 5, 2010

The One Where I Complain A Lot

I hate snow.

Like with a passion.

As I was dreading yesterday, the impending snow storm canceled my date. The date I had been looking forward to for a really long time.

I am quite grumpy right now and I would take a nap, but I already slept super late today, so now I have nothing to do except mope around.

I know it's not his fault, so I'm not mad. I'm just sad because I'm really hopeful about this and I just want to see where it's going to go.

Soo, boo on you snow.

Here comes another boring snowed-in weekend with my family :(

I'm super jealous of all of you who aren't getting any snow this weekend and can actually be social and have fun.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Thursday Morning Confessions

It's definitely time for some Thursday Morning Confessions.

-I can't stop listening to Justin Bieber's song "One Less Lonely Girl." Yeah, I know he's practically a child, but this song is so damn catchy and I can't stop singing it. In addition to being extremely catchy, it's also quite hilarious that a 14 year old wishes he could make the world have one less lonely girl.

-I have a crush. Yep, it's on the person I mentioned in my last Thursday Morning Confessions. As I blogged about, we had a good first date and we've been talking ever since and I'm hopefully seeing him this weekend. It feels good to have a crush again. I feel good about this. Butterflies and all.

-I have "power outfits." Basically, I have 2-3 favorite outfits that I feel really good in and just love and wear them on days where I have something big going on or where I just need that extra boost of confidence. Makes my day that much better.

-I can't wait until May 13. Yeah, I know, I know. Don't wish away my last semester of college, but honestly, I'm done. May 13 can't come fast enough. I'm so down with this whole school, going to classes thing.

-I believe love is all you need. I really do. I'm a sucker for love and I'm definitely a hopeless romantic. If I have love, I sincerely think I'll be happy.

-I need to start going to church again. I felt so much better when I was regularly going. My life felt more in balance and I felt like I had more control and just a sense of calm. My life feels really chaotic right now and I need that familiarity and feeling of general goodness.

-I'm starting to feel like maybe I'm not cut out to be a writer. My creative writing class is fun, but everyone just seems so much better than me. It seems like it comes completely naturally to them, whereas I feel like I try really hard and don't get the same results. Sigh, it's my dream to write a book, but I'm kind of doubting my ability to do it.

-I'm newly obsessed with flats. I love that they dress any outfit up. They even make jeans look fancy. I got three new pairs for Christmas and I absolutely love my pointy ones. They are so chic.

-I can't stop reading Texts From Last Night. Oh and I get annoyed when I check the site and there are no new ones even though I only checked an hour ago. Some of them are just so hilarious.

-I HATE SNOW. I swear if the impending snowstorm this weekend affects the possibility of my date happening tomorrow, I'm going to freak out. Why must it always snow on the weekends? Snow during the work week and ruin the work week! No one wants to go to work!

So, fess up! What do you have to confess today?